Wednesday, June 2, 2021

12 Rules For A Loving Relationship


1. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “

2. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “

3. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

4. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

5. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

6. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

7. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

8. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

9. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

10. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

11. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

12. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

Monday, May 3, 2021

Buying vs selling

As the saying goes, perception is everything. A good entrepreneur must have this in the back of their mind, if they want to remain relevant. When customers feel they are being sold something rather than choosing to buy, you may not get another purchase from them.

                Everything being bought and sold is done first from an emotion. The product or service is eliminating some type of pain or solving a problem. This is the niche; now how do you tap it? i.e. luxury items are purchased for status approval in their community. They want to be loved and accepted thus a positive feeling is evoked.

                A good business man’s job is to remove or reduce all negativity of that experience. Make sure your solution is better or different. It does not have to be cheaper but it does have to create desire. Ask these questions:

1. What is the problem with____?

2. What is the number on question with___?

3. What can I do to help with___?

When your customer feels that they bought positivity instead of being sold questionably? Expect to have repeat business.


Thursday, April 1, 2021

Don’t buy you ticket or plan to visit or return to Jamaica without doing this first!!!


COVID pandemic has resulted in a lot of bureaucracy. No turning up to your favorite travel agent to buy a ticket on the spot, anymore. Not only do you have to make sure you have been tested negative for coronavirus, within a certain time frame of your flight, but you also have to complete an online form, including a quarantine assessment questionnaire, and have them all approved, prior to buying your ticket.

            The following process may be daunting but as a June 2020, the success rate was a total of 8,418 approvals that had been granted to Jamaicans overseas who had applied to the JamCovid online Ministry of Health system for permission to return “a yaad”, under the controlled re-entry programme. If you are thinking of doing the same, here is some useful information. You will need to go online and complete a re-entry form which is about a 4 pages long and once approved, you will be free to book your flight.

            Before you go online, make sure you have everything you need with you, as some of the sections time out, for example, the security code, or it is going to ask you the full address of where you are going to stay. No point ringing up the person while you are completing the form, it will time you out. Likewise, you can be looking for information in your wallet, on your phone, in an email, or on you PC- you must have everything on hand ready.

            This article is to prepare you in advance.

So before you start-

1.     Have your phone close by you.

2.     Have the email address you have been given, open so you can access the OTC (one-time code), and put it on the phone, which will be counting down (it gives you a few minutes)

3.     Have your passport with you because you will need to information on it, and you will need to take a photograph of it.

4.     Have full name, email address and phone number full street address of the place you are staying.

5.     Have full name, email address, phone number and full street address of your contact person in Jamaica.

6.     You TRN & NIS number, if you are a resident

7.     Parents full name and contact details

8.     Employers full name and contact details

9.     The last date you travelled to Jamaica

10.Details of your return ticket (if couldn’t back because the airport was closed)

11.The address where you are currently living

12.The dates and names of places you have bee to over the last six weeks. Once you have this, go online.

13.Go online under


Once you have completed the form, click on the voice note and listen to it. You will need to make an attestation that you have read, understand and agree to all the information on the form and that the information is accurate and true.

You will then get a confirmation email, stating that your application has been received but it is not clear how long this process will take. Once you get approval via email proceed to book your ticket.

Tuesday, March 2, 2021

Game Plan


All entrepreneurs have a plan. Some work at a company for a few years and branch out on their own. Others create a blueprint and follow it to the letter; still others go with the wind letting their mistakes become their learning foundation. Incorporate these gems in whatever path you choose:

1.       Be attractive. This is how your potential customer will want your product or service.

2.       Analyze the deals. Not all money is good money. Ask yourself what are the mutual benefits?

3.       Can you walk away? Character and integrity always has a price. What are your values?

4.       Create incentives. If someone pays once, how will you get them to pay again?

Monday, February 1, 2021

Jamaican Proverbs


Jamaican sayings are as true now as when your grandmother said them. Here are some that takes you down to memory lane. Apply these cultural gems to your daily lives. Lets see if you know the meaning to these saying:

·        Rock stone a river bottom, nu know say sun hot

·        Ashes cold, dawg lie down in it

·        Trouble never set like rain

·        When puss belly full, ihm seh rat batty stink

·        Cockroach nuffi inna cock fight

Saturday, January 2, 2021

WARE Collective


Our nonprofit organization, the Wattle and Red Earth (WARE) Collective continues our preservation and education work (please see attachments).  A 100+ year old dwelling house built in the traditional “Spanish Wall” construction method has recently been donated to us. This donated house is at risk of being demolished. The Collective plans to document the building in preparation for its disassembly, re-siting and eventual reconstruction as a structure for our Living Museum in St. Elizabeth. 


We have until the end of January 2021 to record, label, disassemble and move the building. The WARE Collective CAN do it. So far we have raised $575 of the $3000 USD needed for equipment and local labor. We have embarked on an ambitious GoFundMe Campaign to rescue this fine Spanish Wall example and ask that you contribute and spread the word. These remarkable buildings made in the Spanish Wall construction method (limestone, white lime and earth in a timber frame), were built at a time when newly freed Africans had to sustainably use the earth for both farming and for shelter. Unfortunately, due to neglect and lack of knowledge, few of these historical landmarks remain.


The WARE Collective and members of the community have forged a unique alliance of skill and trust to preserve and to repurpose these small, but historically relevant and architecturally significant structures.


Students of all levels, nationally and internationally, and community members researching and learning traditional building techniques from local experts. A welcoming, multi-use space with internet access; where visitors can participate in weaving exquisitely made and naturally dyed straw hats and purses; or a space to simply have refreshments while overlooking the panorama of the south coast. We ask for your support and contribution to our GoFundMe site to preserve this donated Spanish wall building that is at risk of demolition.

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Tuesday, December 1, 2020

Know Your Worth


                                      written by Janice K. Maxwell

If you are planning on getting a new job, learn your worth. Business relationships have to be mutual. Before one dollar is exchanged for labor, products or services, understand what both parties are bringing to the table. There is currency and value in everything. Apply these nuggets when making employment decisions:

1.       On your resume, be sure to include your tangibles skills. Are you good at social media marketing? Many companies need an influencer to expand their brand. Your expertise in these area will impact your salary.

2.       Do your research on the company. What are their areas of needs and wants? Visit their website. Learn about the product or services they provide. Filling that gap is your employment security.

3.       Is this company is publically traded? Did their stocks go up or down? This is an indication of this company’s future. Who knows how long will company will be around before you invest.

4.       If you want to know what to ask for at the time of salary negotiation, visit or  Do this before you accept an of offer. 

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